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Absence Makes the Soul Weary

Tue Apr 28, 2009, 4:50 AM
  • Mood: Sadness
  • Reading: Anne Rice - Pandora
I don't know if anyone noticed. but I've been gone for about five or six days. I haven't been online since Thursday last week because my mother took ill suddenly. Her cancer seemed to have abated somewhat, but she developed some serious breathing problems and when we took her to the doctor he found that her left lung was fluid-filled. She was admitted directly to the hospital.

Up until this time she was doing well enough that surgery to cut out the tumor on her lung was being considered provided she was strong enough. It was touchy surgery at best, but since the cancer had been encapsulated it was a serious consideration provided she was well enough to survive the surgery. Unfortunately, this obviously set her back.

Also unfortunately, a more minor surgery was required to drain her lung of the fluid. The oncologist also couldn't determine where the fluid was coming from and the worst was suspected (MRSA). Needless to say, I immediately blamed myself as I am still medically tagged as a MRSA carrier. I suppose the good news is that no infectious lesions were found in her lung so MRSA was ruled out. She did well through the surgery and they drained 1,200 ml from the lung. She remains in the hospital, although she hopes they will release her today.

I'm afraid I won't have time to comment on the 172 deviations and 149 comments I've received in my absence. It's just too much for me to go through every single one. I will, however, try to at least look at them and answer as many of the comments as possible, although I will likely not comment on journal entries.

I hope I find you all well and free of sadness, illness or injury as I delve into the pile. And I'd like to thank you all in advance for your well-wishes which I know will inevitably pour in (I don't make friends with people who wouldn't be concerned).

I would like to say it's great to be back, but I'll wait on that depending on further news from my mother's doctors. If I disappear again suddenly, it's likely because I'll be too busy helping out my Mom.

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:iconjanellemckain:
I did notice you were missing, and I totally understand, your priority is your mother. My thoughts and prayers are with you my friend!

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"Where the spirit does not work with the hand there is no art." - Leonardo da Vinci
:iconzweihander400:
i hope your mum will get well soon!

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"If the idiots hate you, it proves you're not one of them" :nana:
:icontiamat9:
I am very sorry to read that. I hope she gets better soon.

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"A paranoid is someone who knows a little of what's going on"-
William S. Burroughs

*TheExquisiteCorpse
:iconmssbehave:
i was wondering about you because i stoped getting your comments...its always hard dealing with sickness within the family i hope your mom gets well soon my prayers with you and your family :hug:

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my other account :iconai-chihuahua:
:iconhavoks:
As always I'm always a note away. Take care of yourself and your mom, you're both in my thoughts.

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They make you king, and make you ill
'Til you're alone, dead on your throne

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:iconlea5000:
Wow, I was just coming to message you to find out where you'd been and make sure you were ok.

I am very sorry about your mom,

Lea
:iconengland9:
Yikes!!!!

Sorry to hear about all the brutulness going on right now. I wrongly assumed you were probably working on getting your garage studio in full gear.

Hope things get better soon for everyone concerned. I thnk everyone here will tell you the same, don't worry about D/A comments or anything else, absolutely nothing on here is as important as your mental and emotional well being...

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Comfort the Disturbed, Disturb the Comfortable
:iconmichellelynn725:
Michael, it's rediculous to apologize for anything under these circumstances. :heart:
And yeah, a few days ago, I'd wondered where you'd gone, but wasn't gonna bother you. I had a sense of something being weird. I'm sorry this is what's been going on.

I hope your mom's mostly comfortable in having to deal with all that's happening in her body.
(In my medical opinion, I suspect you have what's called "a history of MRSA" and not a raging, current case of it. With that said, don't bury yourself in guilt thinking you've contaminated a loved one or could possibly be at the bottom of someone's illness)
Pulmonary edemas can be from a myriad of things, especially in the elderly and those with compromised immune systems. Taking blame only gives you something unhelpful to worry about and I'd like to see you maintain some peace for yourself while things are changing. You are the strong ball of light people are looking to charge themselves by right now.
I don't mean to have such a stern tone- :hug:
I say all this to let you know I care and am praying for things to stablize in you and your family's lives. :heart:

Hoping I've eased your mind.
Much love to you.

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:icons3ptic:
Sorry to hear that. I hope your mothers health improves.

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:iconrainwhitehart:
My thoughts are with you and your family.

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*Bernardumaine:iconBernardumaine:
Hi Michael !
Fri Dec 18, 2009, 2:01 PM
*Fangfingers:iconFangfingers:
Remember kids!...don't eat your boogers even when you are alone.
Wed Aug 12, 2009, 5:51 PM
*davidmacdowell:icondavidmacdowell:
Heyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy;P
Mon Jun 1, 2009, 5:30 PM
=England9:iconEngland9:
I STILL stand by poultice of crushed pork and I shall never waiver
Fri Apr 3, 2009, 4:21 PM
=SparkStudios:iconSparkStudios:
:llama:
Wed Apr 1, 2009, 9:09 AM
*Pygmyink:iconPygmyink:
:icongoofygrinplz: You should make some polls just for fun :iconhappylarryplz:..
Sat Mar 14, 2009, 9:14 AM
=kzeor:iconkzeor:
Hello from Munchkin land!!!
Tue Feb 3, 2009, 12:36 PM
*bluedragoneye:iconbluedragoneye:
MJ ROCKS COME ON FEEL THE NOISE GIRLS ROCK THE BOYS!
Sun Jan 4, 2009, 1:39 PM
~audreyxl:iconaudreyxl:
looking forward to the new arts.
Tue Nov 25, 2008, 2:28 PM
=solarissky:iconsolarissky:
:hug: I hope things get better for you and your family! I'm glad you're back :)
Sat Nov 15, 2008, 7:47 PM

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